Free Private Podcast Series for Moms Breastfeeding Toddlers

How to Wean Your Toddler
from Breastfeeding
Without the Guilt, Battles, or
Feeling Like a Bad Mom

Your child's not broken. The advice you've been given is.

Boundaries, Night Weaning & Beyond: The Gentle Toddler Breastfeeding & Weaning Series with Jenna Wolfe

A free 4-part audio workshop series that reveals why "boundaries" is making everything worse ...and what actually works to feel like yourself again.

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Your child's not broken.

The advice you've been given is.

How to Wean Your Toddler
from Breastfeeding
Without the Guilt, Battles, or
Feeling Like a Bad Mom

Free Audio Workshop Series for Moms Breastfeeding Toddlers

Boundaries, Night weaning & Beyond: The Gentle Toddler Breastfeeding and weaning series with Jenna Wolfe LC

Get Instant Access - 100% Free

Desperately Googling "how to wean a toddler from breastfeeding" between night feeds?

This free 4-part gentle toddler weaning audio workshop series reveals why the standard advice makes toddler nursing aversion worse — and what actually works to set compassionate breastfeeding boundaries and feel like yourself again.

This Free Toddler Weaning Workshop Is For You If...

Your skin crawls every time your toddler latches

...but you feel too guilty to say no

Nursing aversion is getting worse

...not better, and nobody told you this was even a thing

You're waking up multiple times a night

...and can't function during the day anymore

You love extended breastfeeding in theory

...but feel like you've completely lost control of your own body

Your toddler has epic meltdowns

...that only breastfeeding can stop, and you're worried you're creating unhealthy patterns

Your partner or family keeps asking "when will you stop?"

...and honestly, you're starting to wonder too

You're being kicked, pinched, and climbed on

...during feeds, and sometimes you want to scream (or punch a wall...)

You're pregnant again

...and terrified about how breastfeeding a toddler will feel with a newborn too

This Free Toddler Weaning
Workshop Is For You If...

✔️Your skin crawls every time your toddler latches

...but you feel too guilty to say no

✔️Nursing aversion is getting worse

...not better, and nobody told you this was even a thing

✔️You're waking up multiple times a night

...and can't function during the day anymore

✔️You love extended breastfeeding in theory

...but feel like you've completely lost control of your own body

✔️Your toddler has epic meltdowns

...that only breastfeeding can stop, and you're worried you're creating unhealthy patterns

✔️Your partner or family keeps asking "when will you stop?"

...and honestly, you're starting to wonder too

✔️You're being kicked, pinched, and climbed on

...during feeds, and sometimes you want to scream (or punch a wall...)

✔️You're pregnant again

...and terrified about how breastfeeding a toddler will feel with a newborn too

Mom looking exhausted holding an older baby on her lap.

Feeling like a human pacifier. Like you're being held hostage by a tiny person who owns your body. Like you should be grateful but instead you're just... done?

I get it. And I promise—you're not alone, you're not selfish, and you're definitely not failing.

If you've been stuck in a "say no" → "tantrum" → "give in" cycle...

This audio workshop series is your way out.

YEs, this is exactly me - show me what works

Feeling like a human pacifier. Like you're being held hostage by a tiny person who owns your body. Like you should be grateful but instead you're just... done?

I get it. And I promise—you're not alone, you're not selfish, and you're definitely not failing.

If you've been stuck in

"say no" → "tantrum" → "give in"
cycle...

This audio workshop series is your way out.

YEs, this is exactly me - show me what works

(Why Gentle Toddler Weaning Advice Usually Fails 👇)

Let me guess... Everything you've tried hasn't worked.

"Don't offer, don't refuse."
But you felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared, and your child continued to "ask" even when you wanted to "refuse".

Distraction techniques
But they either screamed for milk anyway, or seemed to have other issues pop up later so you ended up just playing "whack a mole" with different (often more intense) challenges.

Offering snacks instead
But you know that "hunger" isn't really why they are breastfeeding in the first place, so this just brought on more stress (and breastfeeding)

Dropping one feed at a time
But which feed? And how do you "drop" it? ...Like on the floor? 😕
(...and that is if you are lucky enough to have enough of a schedule that you can identify a single "feed")

Counting down or singing songs
It might have worked for a while, but now your child takes it as a cue to start protesting instead of a cue to finish the feed.

Mom with a pony tail and a lap top, has her head in her hands, while breastfeeding a toddler

"Don't offer, don't refuse."

But you felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared, and your child continued to "ask" even when you wanted to "refuse".

Distraction techniques

But they either screamed for milk anyway, or seemed to have other issues pop up later so you ended up just playing "whack a mole" with different (often more intense) challenges.

Offering snacks instead

But you know that "hunger" isn't really why they are breastfeeding in the first place, so this just brought on more stress (and breastfeeding)

Dropping one feed at a time

But which feed? And how do you "drop" it? ...Like on the floor? 😕
(...and that is if you are lucky enough to have enough of a schedule that you can identify a single "feed")

Counting down or singing songs

It might have worked for a while, but now your child takes it as a cue to start protesting instead of a cue to finish the feed.

None of it worked because you were treating
the symptom, not the cause.

None of it worked
because you were
treating the symptom,
not the cause.

The conventional advice treats breastfeeding like a bad habit to break. But toddler breastfeeding is a tool that's meeting real needs—yours AND your child's. When you try to eliminate the tool without understanding those underlying needs, of course it doesn't work.

Worse? You end up in what I call The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Spiral—where your stress triggers your child to nurse more, which triggers more stress, which triggers more nursing... and round and round you go.

the toddler breastfeeding stress sprial: "mom is afraid child is too needy" -> "child wants to breastfeed" -> "mom unconsciously pulls away" -> "child pulls on shirt to feed" -> "rinse and repeat"

You can't willpower your way out of this cycle. But you CAN understand it—and interrupt it.

What If Weaning Your Toddler from Breastfeeding Could Feel... Different?

What if you could set compassionate breastfeeding boundaries that honor both your needs and your child's—without sacrificing either one?

What if night weaning didn't have to mean hours of crying (yours or theirs)?

What if you could trust yourself to know when and how to wean—on YOUR timeline?

What If Weaning Your Toddler from Breastfeeding Could Feel... Different?

What if you could set compassionate breastfeeding boundaries that honor both your needs and your child's—without sacrificing either one?

What if night weaning didn't have to mean hours of crying (yours or theirs)?

What if you could trust yourself to know when and how to wean—on YOUR timeline?

This Isn't a Webinar You Have To Sit Through

It's a private podcast series you can listen to while nursing, doing dishes, or hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace.

Whenever works for you.

This Isn't a Webinar You Have To Sit Through

It's a private podcast series you can listen to while nursing, doing dishes, or hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace.

Whenever works for you.

📱 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get podcasts.

Jenna Wolfe, Certified Lactation Counselor and toddler breastfeeding coach

Certified Lactation Counselor • Certified Purejoy Parenting Coach • Host of the Start to Stop Toddler Breastfeeding Podcast • Featured at The Happily Family Conference, Breastfeeding Beyond Babyhood Summit, and more

In early 2019, I was punching my headboard at 2 AM.

My almost-2-year-old's latch felt like razorblades. I was newly pregnant. And I was supposed to be a lactation counselor who "had it all figured out."

Instead, I was terrified I was ruining my daughter's attachment. Terrified of what people would think. And absolutely done feeling like my body wasn't my own.

One day after a 45-minute grocery store meltdown, I sat in the car thinking: "I can't do this with a newborn too."

That's when I realized: everything I'd been told about how to wean a toddler from breastfeeding wasn't just wrong—it was making things worse.

I threw away the conventional advice and tuned back into myself. What I discovered changed everything—not just for my family, but for the hundreds of moms I've worked with since.

I went on to tandem feed for over 3 years while feeling like my body and time were my own. My youngest weaned at six on his timeline, without pressure, and without me feeling touched out or burnt out.

Your breastfeeding journey doesn't have to feel this hard.

Click here to learn how to make the change

What's Inside This Free Gentle Toddler
Breastfeeding Boundaries & Weaning
Audio Workshop Series

What's Inside This Free
Gentle Toddler Breastfeeding
Boundaries & Weaning
Audio Workshop Series

🎧 Episode 1: Welcome to Your Village (15 min)

Finally feel SEEN in your toddler breastfeeding journey. You'll understand why you're feeling touched out, trapped, and terrified—and why that makes perfect sense.

Plus, my own story of going from punching my headboard at 2 AM to tandem feeding for 3+ years while actually enjoying it.

🎧 Episode 2: What Everyone Gets Wrong (27 min)

The 3 biggest mistakes keeping you stuck when weaning a toddler from breastfeeding, and how to avoid them.

You'll finally understand why the conventional advice makes things worse and discover The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Cycle that's keeping you trapped.

🎧 Episode 3: The 3 C’s: A Framework for Breastfeeding & Weaning (30 min)

My signature approach to toddler breastfeeding boundaries and weaning: Compassion, Curiosity, and Creativity.

You'll walk away with actual tools you can use TONIGHT, including a guided practice you can do while listening.

🎧 Episode 4: Real World Examples (19 min)

Four different families, four different paths: night weaning success, full weaning, setting boundaries while continuing, and tandem feeding breakthroughs.

See how the 3 C's framework works in real life (and find the story that resonates with YOUR situation.)

🎧 Episode 1: Welcome to Your Village (15 min)

Finally feel SEEN in your toddler breastfeeding journey. You'll understand why you're feeling touched out, trapped, and terrified—and why that makes perfect sense.

Plus, my own story of going from punching my headboard at 2 AM to tandem feeding for 3+ years while actually enjoying it.

🎧 Episode 2: What Everyone Gets Wrong (27 min)

The 3 biggest mistakes keeping you stuck when weaning a toddler from breastfeeding, and how to avoid them.

You'll finally understand why the conventional advice makes things worse and discover The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Cycle that's keeping you trapped.

🎧 Episode 3: The 3 C’s: A Framework for Breastfeeding & Weaning (30 min)

My signature approach to toddler breastfeeding boundaries and weaning: Compassion, Curiosity, and Creativity.

You'll walk away with actual tools you can use TONIGHT, including a guided practice you can do while listening.

🎧 Episode 4: Real World Examples (19 min)

Four different families, four different paths: night weaning success, full weaning, setting boundaries while continuing, and tandem feeding breakthroughs.

See how the 3 C's framework works in real life (and find the story that resonates with YOUR situation.)

Send Me the Free Podcast Series

Instant access • Listen on any podcast app • Less than 2 hours of listening total

Send Me the Free Podcast Series

Instant access • Listen on any podcast app • Less than 2 hours of listening total

"But wait, could weaning or setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?"

a greyscale image of a little boy giving his mom a sweet a kiss on her nose - mom has her eyes close, leaning close and smiling

This is the biggest fear I hear, and it makes so much sense that you're worried about this.

Here's the truth: your needs matter just as much as your child's needs matter.

They feel it when you're white-knuckling through feeds, feeling resentful, and running on empty.

Research shows that setting compassionate breastfeeding boundaries actually strengthens attachment because it teaches your child that both people in a relationship matter.

In this audio workshop series, I'll share the neuroscience behind why this works and exactly how to do it in a way that deepens—not damages—your connection.

"But wait, could weaning or setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?"

This is the biggest fear I hear, and it makes so much sense that you're worried about this.

Here's the truth: your needs matter just as much as your child's needs matter.

They feel it when you're white-knuckling through feeds, feeling resentful, and running on empty.

Research shows that setting compassionate breastfeeding boundaries actually strengthens attachment because it teaches your child that both people in a relationship matter.

In this podcast series, I'll share the neuroscience behind why this works and exactly how to do it in a way that deepens—not damages—your connection.

Featured on : "Happily Family" "Women & ADHD" "Pumped Up Parenting" and "Breastfeeding Beyond Babyhood"

What other toddler breastfeeding moms have said about this workshop:

screen shot "I have been looking for support for breastfeeding toddlers and it is so hard to come by. Thank you for creating this content and building this community."

screen shot: your workshop has left me feeling so inspired and hopeful"

screen shot "content was fantastic, I was truly grateful. thankyou."

After this workshop, you'll have:

🧠 Brain Science

Understand why your irritation and frustration are the KEY to unlocking the next right step for your child (no more second-guessing what to do).

💗 A Whole Lot of Hope

Discover why everything you've been told to do until now has made things WORSE instead of better (...and why it's absolutely not too late).

🛠️ Practical Tools

A proven framework to handle EVERY breastfeeding and weaning challenge like a pro (...even while being treated like a human fidget toy).

💌 Empowerment to Make the Next Right Step

The encouragement you need to figure out what to do next when it all feels like too much.

🧠 Brain Science

Understand why your irritation and frustration are the KEY to unlocking the next right step for your child (no more second-guessing what to do).

💗 So Much Hope

Discover why everything you've been told to do until now has made things WORSE instead of better (...and why it's absolutely not too late).

🛠️ Practical Tools

A proven framework to handle EVERY breastfeeding and weaning challenge like a pro (...even while being treated like a human fidget toy).

💌 Empowerment to Make the Next Right Step

The encouragement you need to figure out what to do next when it all feels like too much.

Start listening for free

Common Questions From Moms Like You

Common Questions from Moms Like You

How does the private podcast work?

After you sign up, you'll get a link in your email to the private podcast feed that works with any podcast app. You can listen whenever and wherever you want, at whatever pace you want.

Will this tell me I have to keep breastfeeding even though I'm miserable?

No. YOU get to choose what is right for you and your child. I'll offer you support to get clarity and cultivate confidence to choose the right path for you. Then I'll give you the tools to get to the end of that path with a deeper relationship with your child than you had at the beginning (even if you have fully weaned).

I'm worried about what my partner/family thinks about me still breastfeeding. Can this help?

Yes—Episode 2 addresses exactly this. I'll give you specific language to use and help you understand why their opinions are affecting you so much. More importantly, you'll get clear on YOUR values so you can make decisions from confidence instead of defensiveness.

I don't want to fully wean, I just want breastfeeding to feel manageable.
Is this for me?

Absolutely. This series isn't about forcing weaning. It's about helping you feel like yourself again, whether that means setting breastfeeding boundaries, night weaning, gradually reducing feeds, or eventually fully weaning. YOU decide what's right for your family.

My child is 3/4/5 years old, is it too late?

Not at all. I've worked with moms nursing preschoolers and beyond. The 3 C's framework works at any age because it's based on understanding needs and nervous system regulation, not arbitrary age cutoffs. If you're still breastfeeding and want to make changes, this is for you.

Is this just a sales pitch pretending to be free help?

Nope. I promise the entire 4-part series is sales-pitch free and jam-packed with supportive information, validation, and tools to make meaningful changes. I have a short "next steps" episode separate from the 4 main episodes that covers a few options for working with me if you would like, as well as other free resources I have available.

Ready to Finally Feel Like Yourself Again?

Get instant access to this free 4-part podcast series on gentle toddler weaning. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite app (while nursing, driving, or folding laundry.)

You're already in the thick of it. Don't spend another week white-knuckling through feeds when the answer is waiting in your podcast app.

Ready to Finally Feel Like Yourself Again?

Get instant access to this free 4-part podcast series on gentle toddler weaning. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite app (while nursing, driving, or folding laundry.)

P.S. If you've been hiding how long you've been breastfeeding from your pediatrician... If you've started avoiding certain relatives who have opinions... If you feel like the only mom still doing this...

You're not alone.

And you're not doing this wrong.

This podcast series will help you see that your struggle isn't because you did something wrong—it's because you've been given advice that doesn't account for the reality of toddler breastfeeding.

I have been where you are.

And now, as a certified lactation counselor, parenting coach and mom with 8 years of personal and professional breastfeeding experience, I can tell you that it truly IS possible to breastfeed and wean your toddler with confidence, clarity, and connection.

I can't wait to share with you how.

—Jenna 💚

You're not alone.

And you're not doing this wrong.

This podcast series will help you see that your struggle isn't because you did something wrong—it's because you've been given advice that doesn't account for the reality of toddler breastfeeding.

I have been where you are.

And now, as a certified lactation counselor, parenting coach and mom with 8 years of personal and professional breastfeeding experience, I can tell you that it truly IS possible to breastfeed and wean your toddler with confidence, clarity, and connection.

I can't wait to share with you how.

—Jenna 💚

Just let me know where to send the link to your free private podcast, audio workshop series.

I know busy toddler moms, and email doesn't always mix.
I'm excited to now offer optional text message delivery for the link!

You can opt out at any time by replying "STOP" to any message I send.
I promise I will not spam you - you're only going to receive relevant emails/texts.

Free Private Podcast Series for Moms Breastfeeding Toddlers

How to Wean Your Toddler from BreastfeedingWithout the Guilt, Battles, or Feeling Like a Bad Mom

How to Wean Your Toddler from BreastfeedingWithout the Guilt, Battles, or Feeling Like a Bad Mom

Free Audio Workshop Series for Moms Breastfeeding Toddlers

This Free Toddler Weaning Workshop Is For You If...

(Why Gentle Toddler Weaning Advice Usually Fails 👇)

"Don't offer, don't refuse."But you felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared, and your child continued to "ask" even when you wanted to "refuse".

Distraction techniquesBut they either screamed for milk anyway, or seemed to have other issues pop up later so you ended up just playing "whack a mole" with different (often more intense) challenges.

Offering snacks insteadBut you know that "hunger" isn't really why they are breastfeeding in the first place, so this just brought on more stress (and breastfeeding)

"Don't offer, don't refuse."

Distraction techniques

Offering snacks instead

Dropping one feed at a time

Counting down or singing songs

Your breastfeeding journey doesn't have to feel this hard.

What's Inside This Free Gentle ToddlerBreastfeeding Boundaries & WeaningAudio Workshop Series

What's Inside This FreeGentle Toddler Breastfeeding Boundaries & WeaningAudio Workshop Series

"But wait, could weaning or setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?"

"But wait, could weaning or setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?"

After this workshop, you'll have:

After this workshop, you'll have:

💌 Empowerment to Make the Next Right Step

💌 Empowerment to Make the Next Right Step

Common Questions From Moms Like You

Common Questions from Moms Like You

How does the private podcast work?

Will this tell me I have to keep breastfeeding even though I'm miserable?

I'm worried about what my partner/family thinks about me still breastfeeding. Can this help?

I don't want to fully wean, I just want breastfeeding to feel manageable. Is this for me?

My child is 3/4/5 years old, is it too late?

Is this just a sales pitch pretending to be free help?

How to Wean Your Toddler
from Breastfeeding
Without the Guilt, Battles, or
Feeling Like a Bad Mom

How to Wean Your Toddler
from Breastfeeding
Without the Guilt, Battles, or
Feeling Like a Bad Mom

"Don't offer, don't refuse."
But you felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared, and your child continued to "ask" even when you wanted to "refuse".

Distraction techniques
But they either screamed for milk anyway, or seemed to have other issues pop up later so you ended up just playing "whack a mole" with different (often more intense) challenges.

Offering snacks instead
But you know that "hunger" isn't really why they are breastfeeding in the first place, so this just brought on more stress (and breastfeeding)

What's Inside This Free Gentle Toddler
Breastfeeding Boundaries & Weaning
Audio Workshop Series

What's Inside This Free
Gentle Toddler Breastfeeding
Boundaries & Weaning
Audio Workshop Series

I don't want to fully wean, I just want breastfeeding to feel manageable.
Is this for me?