Free Workshop: Stop Feeling Touched Out While Breastfeeding Your Toddler
Free Private Podcast Series for Extended Breastfeeding Moms

Still Breastfeeding Your Toddler?
Feeling Touched Out, Trapped, and Terrified You're Doing Something Wrong?

You're not broken. The advice you've been given is.

A free 4-part private podcast series that reveals why "don't offer, don't refuse" is making everything worse—and what actually works to feel like yourself again without the guilt or epic meltdowns.

Yes, Show Me What Actually Works

This free workshop is for you if...

  • Your skin crawls every time your toddler latches—but you feel too guilty to say no
  • Your toddler has hour-long meltdowns that only breastfeeding can stop, and you're worried you're creating unhealthy dependence
  • You're being kicked, pinched, and climbed on during feeds, and sometimes you want to scream
  • You're waking up 10+ times a night, and you literally can't function during the day anymore
  • Your partner or family keeps asking "when will you stop?"—and you're starting to wonder if they're right
  • You thought nursing aversion would go away, but it's actually getting worse
  • You're pregnant again and terrified about tandem feeding if it already feels like this
  • You love the idea of extended breastfeeding but feel like you've lost control of your own body

Feeling like a human juice box? That you're being held hostage by a tiny dictator? Like you should be grateful but instead you're just... done?

I get it. And I promise—you're not alone, you're not selfish, and you're definitely not a bad mom.

The Problem? Everything You've Been Told to Try...

You've Already Tried:

  • Don't offer, don't refuse (and felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared)
  • Distraction (they just scream louder and you feel like you're ignoring their needs)
  • Offering snacks instead (like hunger is the problem)
  • Counting down or singing songs (maybe worked once, if you were lucky)
  • Bandaids on your nipples (they ripped them right off)
  • "Drop one feed at a time" (but which feed? And what about the meltdown that follows?)

None of it worked because you were treating the symptom, not the cause.

The conventional advice treats breastfeeding like a bad habit to break. But breastfeeding is a tool that's meeting real needs—yours and your child's. When you try to eliminate the tool without understanding and meeting those underlying needs, of course it doesn't work.

Worse? You end up in what I call the toddler breastfeeding stress spiral—where your stress triggers your child to nurse more, which triggers more stress, which triggers more nursing... and the spiral continues.


What If There Was a Different Way?

What if you could make changes that honor both your needs and your child's—without sacrificing either one?

This isn't a webinar you have to sit through. It's a private podcast series you can listen to while nursing, doing dishes, or during naptime—whenever works for you.

This Free Private Podcast Series Includes 4 Audio Episodes:

📱 Listen on your favorite podcast player—Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen

Perfect for listening while nursing, folding laundry, or during your commute. No need to sit at your computer—take this support wherever you need it.

🎧 Episode 1: Welcome to Your Village (15 min)

  • Why you're feeling touched out, trapped, and terrified—and why that makes perfect sense
  • The hidden struggles nobody talks about (nursing aversion, resentment, feeling like a bad mom)
  • My story: From lactation counselor "with it all figured out" to punching the headboard at 2 AM
  • How I went from burnout to tandem feeding for 3+ years while feeling like myself

🎧 Episode 2: Why Everything You've Been Told Is Wrong (18 min)

  • The 3 biggest mistakes keeping you stuck (and how to avoid them)
  • Why "drop one feed at a time" doesn't work for on-demand breastfeeders
  • The truth about "don't offer, don't refuse" (and why it's actually terrible advice)
  • How distraction and offering snacks ignores the real needs underneath
  • The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Cycle—and why you can't solve it with willpower

🎧 Episode 3: The 3 C's Framework (20 min)

  • Compassion: The "of course" practice that shifts everything (including the nervous system science behind it)
  • Curiosity: The SIFT exercise to access your body's wisdom—try it while listening!
  • How interoception (feeling your internal signals) predicts your child's wellbeing
  • Creativity: Why cookie-cutter solutions fail and how to create your own custom plan
  • The truth: You are your child's best expert

🎧 Episode 4: Real Stories of Transformation (15 min)

  • Lacey's story: How she went from 2 AM cluster feeding to her son sleeping in his own room—by addressing daycare stress, not night weaning
  • Victoria's revelation: Why her breasts feeling physically irritated had nothing to do with how long the feeds lasted
  • Sarah's full weaning accomplishment:  All of her best efforts had failed time and time again, but with some clarity & compassion, she fully weaned her child while deepening their bond
  • Natasha's tandem feeding breakthrough: How presence (not boundaries) stopped the meltdowns

🎁 BONUS RESOURCES INCLUDED:

• Guided audio practices you can use immediately

• Transcripts & Cheat Sheet Summaries

Send Me This Free Podcast Series

Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app

Perfect for moms breastfeeding children ages 1-7 who can ask for milk in full sentences

Hi, I'm Jenna

In early 2019, I was punching my headboard at 2 AM.

My almost-2-year-old's latch felt like razorblades. I was newly pregnant. And I was supposed to be a lactation counselor who "had it all figured out."

Instead, I was terrified I was ruining my daughter's attachment. Terrified of what people would think. And absolutely done feeling like my body wasn't my own.

My daughter was having hour-long meltdowns that only breastfeeding could resolve. I remember one day after a grocery store meltdown—45 minutes of screaming in the car—thinking: "I can't do this with a newborn too."

That's when I realized: everything I'd been told about toddler breastfeeding wasn't just wrong—it was making things worse.

I threw away the conventional advice and tuned back into myself. What I discovered changed everything—not just for my family, but for the hundreds of moms I've since worked with.

I went on to tandem feed for over 3 years while feeling like my body and time were my own. My youngest is almost done breastfeeding at five—on her timeline, without pressure, and without me feeling touched out or burnt out.

I'm a certified lactation counselor, Purejoy Parenting coach, and founder of Own Your Parenting Story. I've been featured on The Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, Women & ADHD, and speak regularly at events like The Happily Family Conference and the Breastfeeding Beyond Babyhood Summit.

But more importantly? I've been exactly where you are. And I'm here to show you the way through.

Your Questions Answered

How does the private podcast work?

After you sign up, you'll receive immediate access to a private podcast feed that works with any podcast app—Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Overcast, Pocket Casts, or whatever you already use. The 4 episodes (a little over an hour total) are yours to keep and listen to as many times as you need, for as long as your need. Listen in order or jump to the episode that calls to you. Many moms tell me they listen multiple times as they move through their journey.

Do I have to listen at a certain time?

Not at all! This is your support, on your timeline. Listen while nursing, during your commute, folding laundry, or in the middle of the night when you're wide awake (we've all been there). The episodes are evergreen—they'll be waiting for you whenever you're ready.

But won't setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?

This is one of the biggest fears I hear, and it makes so much sense. Here's the truth: your child needs you to be okay. When you're white-knuckling through feeds, feeling resentful, and running on empty—they feel that. Setting compassionate boundaries actually strengthens attachment because it teaches your child that both people in a relationship matter. In this workshop, I'll share the neuroscience behind why this works and how to do it in a way that deepens—not damages—your connection.

I don't want to fully wean, just... make it manageable. Is this for me?

Absolutely YES. This series isn't about forcing weaning at all. It's about helping you feel like yourself again, whether that means continuing to breastfeed with clear boundaries, gradually reducing feeds, night weaning, or full weaning. You get to decide what's right for your family—I'm just here to give you the framework to make those decisions from a place of clarity instead of desperation.

I'm too exhausted to try another method that won't work. How is this different?

I hear you. You've been given tactical advice (drop a feed, distract, don't offer/don't refuse) that treats breastfeeding like a problem to solve. This approach is completely different—it's about understanding why your child is breastfeeding so much and why it's affecting you the way it is. When you understand the root cause, the solutions become clear and natural—not another exhausting battle of wills. And because it's audio, you can absorb it while resting—no taking notes or sitting at a computer required.

My child is 4/5/6 years old—is it too late for this approach?

Not even close. I've worked with moms nursing preschoolers and beyond. In fact, older children can often participate in creating new routines in really beautiful ways. The principles of the 3 C's work at any age because they're based on understanding needs and nervous system regulation—not arbitrary age limits. If you're still breastfeeding and want to make changes, this series is for you.

Will this tell me I have to keep breastfeeding even though I'm miserable?

Absolutely not. One of my core beliefs is that your experience matters. If you're miserable, that's data—your body is trying to tell you something important. This series will never shame you for wanting to wean, wanting your body back, or feeling done. What it will do is help you understand what's driving your discomfort so you can make empowered choices—not guilt-driven ones. Your needs matter just as much as your child's.

I'm worried about what my partner/family will think if I keep breastfeeding. Can this help?

YES. Episode 2 addresses exactly this—how to navigate judgment from partners, family, and even healthcare providers. I'll give you specific language to use and help you understand why their opinions are affecting you so much. More importantly, you'll learn how to get clear on YOUR values so you can make decisions from confidence instead of defensiveness.

Ready to Feel Like Yourself Again?

Get instant access to this free 4-part private podcast series—listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite app.

Send Me This Free Training Now


I'll never spam you—just real support for this journey. Your information is safe with me.

P.S. If you've been hiding how long you've been breastfeeding from your pediatrician... If you've started avoiding certain relatives... If you feel like the only mom still doing this... you're not alone and you're not wrong.

This podcast series will help you see that your struggle isn't because you did something wrong—it's because you've been given advice that doesn't account for the reality of toddler breastfeeding. There's a better way, and I can't wait to share it with you in your earbuds.


Free Workshop: Stop Feeling Touched Out While Breastfeeding Your Toddler
Free Private Podcast Series for Extended Breastfeeding Moms

Still Breastfeeding Your Toddler?
Feeling Touched Out, Trapped, and Terrified You're Doing Something Wrong?

You're not broken. The advice you've been given is.

A free 4-part private podcast series that reveals why "don't offer, don't refuse" is making everything worse—and what actually works to feel like yourself again without the guilt or epic meltdowns.

Yes, Show Me What Actually Works

This free workshop is for you if...

  • Your skin crawls every time your toddler latches—but you feel too guilty to say no
  • Your toddler has hour-long meltdowns that only breastfeeding can stop, and you're worried you're creating unhealthy dependence
  • You're being kicked, pinched, and climbed on during feeds, and sometimes you want to scream
  • You're waking up 10+ times a night, and you literally can't function during the day anymore
  • Your partner or family keeps asking "when will you stop?"—and you're starting to wonder if they're right
  • You thought nursing aversion would go away, but it's actually getting worse
  • You're pregnant again and terrified about tandem feeding if it already feels like this
  • You love the idea of extended breastfeeding but feel like you've lost control of your own body

Feeling like a human juice box? That you're being held hostage by a tiny dictator? Like you should be grateful but instead you're just... done?

I get it. And I promise—you're not alone, you're not selfish, and you're definitely not a bad mom.

The Problem? Everything You've Been Told to Try...

You've Already Tried:

  • Don't offer, don't refuse (and felt completely invisible while your needs disappeared)
  • Distraction (they just scream louder and you feel like you're ignoring their needs)
  • Offering snacks instead (like hunger is the problem)
  • Counting down or singing songs (maybe worked once, if you were lucky)
  • Bandaids on your nipples (they ripped them right off)
  • "Drop one feed at a time" (but which feed? And what about the meltdown that follows?)

None of it worked because you were treating the symptom, not the cause.

The conventional advice treats breastfeeding like a bad habit to break. But breastfeeding is a tool that's meeting real needs—yours and your child's. When you try to eliminate the tool without understanding and meeting those underlying needs, of course it doesn't work.

Worse? You end up in what I call the toddler breastfeeding stress spiral—where your stress triggers your child to nurse more, which triggers more stress, which triggers more nursing... and the spiral continues.


What If There Was a Different Way?

What if you could make changes that honor both your needs and your child's—without sacrificing either one?

This isn't a webinar you have to sit through. It's a private podcast series you can listen to while nursing, doing dishes, or during naptime—whenever works for you.

This Free Private Podcast Series Includes 4 Audio Episodes:

📱 Listen on your favorite podcast player—Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen

Perfect for listening while nursing, folding laundry, or during your commute. No need to sit at your computer—take this support wherever you need it.

🎧 Episode 1: Welcome to Your Village (15 min)

  • Why you're feeling touched out, trapped, and terrified—and why that makes perfect sense
  • The hidden struggles nobody talks about (nursing aversion, resentment, feeling like a bad mom)
  • My story: From lactation counselor "with it all figured out" to punching the headboard at 2 AM
  • How I went from burnout to tandem feeding for 3+ years while feeling like myself

🎧 Episode 2: Why Everything You've Been Told Is Wrong (18 min)

  • The 3 biggest mistakes keeping you stuck (and how to avoid them)
  • Why "drop one feed at a time" doesn't work for on-demand breastfeeders
  • The truth about "don't offer, don't refuse" (and why it's actually terrible advice)
  • How distraction and offering snacks ignores the real needs underneath
  • The Toddler Breastfeeding Stress Cycle—and why you can't solve it with willpower

🎧 Episode 3: The 3 C's Framework (20 min)

  • Compassion: The "of course" practice that shifts everything (including the nervous system science behind it)
  • Curiosity: The SIFT exercise to access your body's wisdom—try it while listening!
  • How interoception (feeling your internal signals) predicts your child's wellbeing
  • Creativity: Why cookie-cutter solutions fail and how to create your own custom plan
  • The truth: You are your child's best expert

🎧 Episode 4: Real Stories of Transformation (15 min)

  • Lacey's story: How she went from 2 AM cluster feeding to her son sleeping in his own room—by addressing daycare stress, not night weaning
  • Victoria's revelation: Why her breasts feeling physically irritated had nothing to do with how long the feeds lasted
  • Sarah's full weaning accomplishment:  All of her best efforts had failed time and time again, but with some clarity & compassion, she fully weaned her child while deepening their bond
  • Natasha's tandem feeding breakthrough: How presence (not boundaries) stopped the meltdowns

🎁 BONUS RESOURCES INCLUDED:

• Guided audio practices you can use immediately

• Transcripts & Cheat Sheet Summaries

Send Me This Free Podcast Series

Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app

Perfect for moms breastfeeding children ages 1-7 who can ask for milk in full sentences

Hi, I'm Jenna

In early 2019, I was punching my headboard at 2 AM.

My almost-2-year-old's latch felt like razorblades. I was newly pregnant. And I was supposed to be a lactation counselor who "had it all figured out."

Instead, I was terrified I was ruining my daughter's attachment. Terrified of what people would think. And absolutely done feeling like my body wasn't my own.

My daughter was having hour-long meltdowns that only breastfeeding could resolve. I remember one day after a grocery store meltdown—45 minutes of screaming in the car—thinking: "I can't do this with a newborn too."

That's when I realized: everything I'd been told about toddler breastfeeding wasn't just wrong—it was making things worse.

I threw away the conventional advice and tuned back into myself. What I discovered changed everything—not just for my family, but for the hundreds of moms I've since worked with.

I went on to tandem feed for over 3 years while feeling like my body and time were my own. My youngest is almost done breastfeeding at five—on her timeline, without pressure, and without me feeling touched out or burnt out.

I'm a certified lactation counselor, Purejoy Parenting coach, and founder of Own Your Parenting Story. I've been featured on The Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, Women & ADHD, and speak regularly at events like The Happily Family Conference and the Breastfeeding Beyond Babyhood Summit.

But more importantly? I've been exactly where you are. And I'm here to show you the way through.

Your Questions Answered

How does the private podcast work?

After you sign up, you'll receive immediate access to a private podcast feed that works with any podcast app—Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Overcast, Pocket Casts, or whatever you already use. The 4 episodes (a little over an hour total) are yours to keep and listen to as many times as you need, for as long as your need. Listen in order or jump to the episode that calls to you. Many moms tell me they listen multiple times as they move through their journey.

Do I have to listen at a certain time?

Not at all! This is your support, on your timeline. Listen while nursing, during your commute, folding laundry, or in the middle of the night when you're wide awake (we've all been there). The episodes are evergreen—they'll be waiting for you whenever you're ready.

But won't setting boundaries harm my child's attachment?

This is one of the biggest fears I hear, and it makes so much sense. Here's the truth: your child needs you to be okay. When you're white-knuckling through feeds, feeling resentful, and running on empty—they feel that. Setting compassionate boundaries actually strengthens attachment because it teaches your child that both people in a relationship matter. In this workshop, I'll share the neuroscience behind why this works and how to do it in a way that deepens—not damages—your connection.

I don't want to fully wean, just... make it manageable. Is this for me?

Absolutely YES. This series isn't about forcing weaning at all. It's about helping you feel like yourself again, whether that means continuing to breastfeed with clear boundaries, gradually reducing feeds, night weaning, or full weaning. You get to decide what's right for your family—I'm just here to give you the framework to make those decisions from a place of clarity instead of desperation.

I'm too exhausted to try another method that won't work. How is this different?

I hear you. You've been given tactical advice (drop a feed, distract, don't offer/don't refuse) that treats breastfeeding like a problem to solve. This approach is completely different—it's about understanding why your child is breastfeeding so much and why it's affecting you the way it is. When you understand the root cause, the solutions become clear and natural—not another exhausting battle of wills. And because it's audio, you can absorb it while resting—no taking notes or sitting at a computer required.

My child is 4/5/6 years old—is it too late for this approach?

Not even close. I've worked with moms nursing preschoolers and beyond. In fact, older children can often participate in creating new routines in really beautiful ways. The principles of the 3 C's work at any age because they're based on understanding needs and nervous system regulation—not arbitrary age limits. If you're still breastfeeding and want to make changes, this series is for you.

Will this tell me I have to keep breastfeeding even though I'm miserable?

Absolutely not. One of my core beliefs is that your experience matters. If you're miserable, that's data—your body is trying to tell you something important. This series will never shame you for wanting to wean, wanting your body back, or feeling done. What it will do is help you understand what's driving your discomfort so you can make empowered choices—not guilt-driven ones. Your needs matter just as much as your child's.

I'm worried about what my partner/family will think if I keep breastfeeding. Can this help?

YES. Episode 2 addresses exactly this—how to navigate judgment from partners, family, and even healthcare providers. I'll give you specific language to use and help you understand why their opinions are affecting you so much. More importantly, you'll learn how to get clear on YOUR values so you can make decisions from confidence instead of defensiveness.

Ready to Feel Like Yourself Again?

Get instant access to this free 4-part private podcast series—listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite app.

Send Me This Free Training Now


I'll never spam you—just real support for this journey. Your information is safe with me.

P.S. If you've been hiding how long you've been breastfeeding from your pediatrician... If you've started avoiding certain relatives... If you feel like the only mom still doing this... you're not alone and you're not wrong.

This podcast series will help you see that your struggle isn't because you did something wrong—it's because you've been given advice that doesn't account for the reality of toddler breastfeeding. There's a better way, and I can't wait to share it with you in your earbuds.

Ready to finally have a road map for your breastfeeding journey? 
Just let me know where to send the link 👇

*I'll never spam you—just real support for this journey. Your information is safe with me.
*I've included the option for you to enter your mobile phone number because I know checking email isn't always email for busy moms of toddlers.   Feel free to use that option instead or in addition to your email - you'll get the same content there if you prefer. 

Jenna Marie Wolfe

Canada
1-289-272-5027 • hello@starttostopbreastfeeding.com